What Your Grown Kid(s) Will Say About Your Divorce

Picture this: your kid(s) are in their late 20s, back home for a visit.

You're sitting around the dinner table, and they start reminiscing about what it was like during your divorce and co-parenting years.

What do you hope they will say?

The answer to this question can be a powerful guide on how you show up as a parent, co-parent, and human during this challenging time. 

Turn what you hope they will say into your compass. 🧭

Even if things feel overwhelming and uncertain, keep your eyes on that compass!

I'll go first. I hope my kids will say something like:

"There were definitely some hard times when it felt stressful between you and Dad. But you two figured it out, and I always felt completely supported and loved by both of you. I knew I could talk to you about anything and felt like you supported my relationship with Dad and my stepmom. I always felt like I had lots of people who loved me and wanted me to thrive. I have good memories from both homes. And you and Dad are both weird in your own ways." 😉

What do you hope they'll say about you?

I'd love to hear your version! Feel free to drop me an email and share your thoughts.