All Problems Are Parenting Problems

I had one of those "aha" moments this morning. While getting coached by Jen Tate (yes, coaches get coached too!) she dropped this wisdom:

"All problems are parenting problems."

Let that sink in for a moment.

Here's what she meant: Whether it's work stress, co-parenting challenges, or processing big emotions – everything spills over into how we show up as parents. But here's the beautiful flip side:

Every skill you build in any area of your life becomes a powerful tool in your parenting tool kit. Think about it:

• That creative solution you found for your work project? It's shaping how you approach your kid's latest challenge.

• The deep breath and dance break 🪩 you take after your ex's 7th text of the day? That's teaching you (and your kids) emotional regulation in real-time.

• And when you let yourself fully feel those big emotions – the heart-wrenching grief, the overwhelming sadness, the raw disappointment – and discover you can handle them? You're becoming the safe harbor your children need for their own BIG FEELS.

Speaking of challenges we can tackle together: If the divorce process has you feeling overwhelmed (and honestly, why shouldn’t it be overwhelming at first, you’ve never been through it before), I'd love to help.

Feel free to drop me a note with your questions, schedule a complimentary 20-minute chat or sign up for the next Washington Divorce Workshop.

Remember no question is too basic or too complex. Let’s get you answers & clarity for your next steps!

Here's to solving one problem at a time, and watching the ripple effects flow into every corner of your life – including your parenting journey!