I don’t think I can afford to get divorced…

"I don't know if I can afford to get divorced right now with everything happening in the world."

If you've said or thought these words, you're not alone. As a divorce coach, I’m hearing this worry frequently these days - and it makes sense. When the world feels like a dumpster fire, adding "divorce" to your to-do list can seem overwhelming.

Your Fears Are Actually Helpful

Fears are like red flags saying "Hey! Pay attention to me!"

My clients talk about real worries like:

- House payments with today's high interest rates (or being able to qualify for a rental)

- Job security in THIS economy

- Accessing medications in a changing healthcare landscape

- Keeping their trans kiddos safe during challenging political times

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I saw one mom just throw up her hands and post, "It's too overwhelming. I'll just let my spouse figure it out."

Oh friend, that rarely works out well in the long run!

While handing over the reins feels like relief in the moment, giving away your power rarely leads to outcomes that work well for you. Decisions made for you—rather than by you—often create new problems down the road.

Channel Those Worries into Action Plans

Once you identify your specific fears, the next step is making a plan—and a few backup plans (because life is life).

Together we can:

- Make a money plan that works for your real life

- Create backup plans for if you lose your job

- Practice the hard talks you need to have before you're in the moment

- Find ways to keep healthcare (and meds) for everyone who needs it

Taking Small Steps Forward

Remember that you don't have to do everything at once. Just taking small steps (like making your plan) can bring so much relief.

Having someone to talk things through with means you don't have to figure it all out alone. I’ll help you turn "I don't think I can" into "I know how & when I will" by making plans that help you feel safe & secure.

Want to see if working together might help? Book a complimentary consult call today. I’m here when you're ready for that first small step.